Well.. To tell the truth, I have been mistaken for a boy quite a few times because of my short hair and attire, that too by boys nonetheless! And it was funny to see their embarrassed face after they realized that I was actually a girl. 😆
It was like a wish come true at those moments because I have always wished I were a boy, and I'm pretty sure most of the girls would have had the same feeling at some point in their lives, right?
The reason I wished to be a boy is...
Being a single child and that too a girl is not easy. Your parents become "OVER"protective, so much so that you have to go to school, which is within walking distance actually, in the van where you are the only one above 13yrs old! and your neighbor who is younger than you, go to the same school on his bicycle.
You can't visit your friend as much as you want, who is only living two bus stops away from your home.
You can't go out with your friends without getting prior permission like a week before.
It's like being in an invisible cage!
I can go on and on about it, and it will never end. You get the idea, right girls?
I don't know if the boys will understand this because as far as I have seen, these things are easy for them. They can hang out wherever they want, whenever they prefer and with whomever they like, while we have to provide them with the entire itinerary with all the details starting from who all will be there with you, the start and destination, mode of transportation, and the time well.. you have to return by 6 at the least. Also, you can't go to another hangout for another month after that.
And then there is this other reason...
If I were a boy and I see a girl on Valentine's day, who is sitting silently in the classroom while her friends are offered flowers by other boys, I would go over to her and offer mine..
If I were a boy and I see a girl in a party, who looks lonely and rejected, I would go over to her and make some conversation and give her company.
If I were a boy and I see a girl like me, who feels lonely and self-conscious but is actually smart and full of surprises (I'd like to think I am..!), just waiting for that someone, to be loved and understood... I'd not think twice before being that someone for her.
But I'm not a boy..
So.. Any boys out there interested in being that someone?
😉
It was like a wish come true at those moments because I have always wished I were a boy, and I'm pretty sure most of the girls would have had the same feeling at some point in their lives, right?
The reason I wished to be a boy is...
Being a single child and that too a girl is not easy. Your parents become "OVER"protective, so much so that you have to go to school, which is within walking distance actually, in the van where you are the only one above 13yrs old! and your neighbor who is younger than you, go to the same school on his bicycle.
You can't visit your friend as much as you want, who is only living two bus stops away from your home.
You can't go out with your friends without getting prior permission like a week before.
It's like being in an invisible cage!
I can go on and on about it, and it will never end. You get the idea, right girls?
I don't know if the boys will understand this because as far as I have seen, these things are easy for them. They can hang out wherever they want, whenever they prefer and with whomever they like, while we have to provide them with the entire itinerary with all the details starting from who all will be there with you, the start and destination, mode of transportation, and the time well.. you have to return by 6 at the least. Also, you can't go to another hangout for another month after that.
And then there is this other reason...
If I were a boy and I see a girl on Valentine's day, who is sitting silently in the classroom while her friends are offered flowers by other boys, I would go over to her and offer mine..
If I were a boy and I see a girl in a party, who looks lonely and rejected, I would go over to her and make some conversation and give her company.
If I were a boy and I see a girl like me, who feels lonely and self-conscious but is actually smart and full of surprises (I'd like to think I am..!), just waiting for that someone, to be loved and understood... I'd not think twice before being that someone for her.
But I'm not a boy..
So.. Any boys out there interested in being that someone?
😉
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ReplyDeleteYou could say that :P :P
DeleteHow well said it is..!!
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